Along with anxieties and hurts, we also bring our disappointments to
God. If anxieties focus on what 'might happen', and hurts focus on what
'has happened', disappointments focus on what 'has not happened'..
acknowledging or naming our disappointment to God is an important
move...because, many of us, if we don't bring our disappointment 'to'
God, we will blame our disappointment 'on' God, alienating ourselves
from our best hope of comfort and strength... (p119-120/Naked
Spirituality/Brian McLaren)